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Overwhelmed…

Originally posted on Dating Documented:
Hello there lovelies, As you know, I have been seeing Mr. Sweet-Guitar-Player for about 2 months now. For a while I thought “Sure, I could date this guy seriously.” I think I might have been wrong. To be honest this  blog post is more for me than it is for you. I needed to see a list in front of me that documented the reasons I’m not feeling it anymore. It feels like we have run our course. We don’t do fun stuff anymore and we don’t have a ton to talk about. I don’t think we have as much in common as I thought we did. I’m just not attracted to him. The sex isn’t great. It isn’t even good. I don’t get butterflies, I don’t feel the constant need to be around him. It feels more like an obligation and I hate that.  Mr. Finally! I hate this because the last thing I want to do is hurt him because he truly is an incredible person, he’s just…

33 Year Old Tinder Date

Originally posted on Dating Documented:
As many of you know, I do not date older guys. Throughout my dating years I have been on very few dates with older men (which I consider 29+). Although, lately I have been catching myself checking out older men. I am curious about them and want to explore the dating world in a wider range. So that brings me to my date I had this past weekend. We matched on Tinder several weeks back, when I first created the account. He appeared to be very handsome in his photographs, possessed a quirky bio and had the most adorable puppy. We began to talk and probably after a day of back and forth Tinder-messaging I noticed that he may be a little crazy/ clingy… Curiosity out-ruled this observation and I continued to talk to him. We finally found a time to go out and there I went. I am unsure how to tell the events of this date so I decided to summarize 33 Year Old Tinder Date with descriptive words and…

Learning things and shit…

Originally posted on Dating Documented:
I went on a date two nights ago. I learned a lot of things and shit.I guess that’s the point of this whole experience right? I like motorcycles. It doesn’t matter how pretty a fella is, sometimes staring into his beautiful face doesn’t drown out the stupid shit he says such as; (in response to the question, “what do you like doing for fun?”) “Nothing. I just like laying on my bed and staring at the ceiling.” (in reference to me losing my dad) “That’s cool. He just checked out before everybody else did. Life’s short anyway-he’s lucky.” “There’s a tree in Arizona that smells like jizz.” “What are your Tinder goals?” “I have a philosophy called ‘cows in the pasture’. Nobody has heard of it; because I made it up. I used to drive to work and there were these cows in the field and I realized they didn’t know what a car was or that I was going to work. I figure that we are all cows who…