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This question is satan…

Originally posted on Dating Documented:
What’s your number? How many people have you slept with? What number am I? I was recently asked this question; a question that I am always unsure of how to answer and if/ should I ask it back. And as usual I panicked and did not know what to do. Why the fuck does this question matter so much? This question has so many issues in itself… First and foremost this question is SEXIST. More times than not women are judged on their number being “too high” and men are judged on their number being “not high enough”. Do we ever take into consideration all the other factors that may influence this question… Maybe the people that person has slept with were great in bed and helped them become an expert or the contrary, maybe the people they slept with in bed were terrible which has led to a person being unsure of what good sex is/ what to do/ what they themselves even like. What if the person has…